Virgo Man and Aries Woman – Love Compatibility, Marriage

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If you are interested in someone, you are probably wondering about the ways to find out more about this person.

Besides looking at their social profiles, you could turn to astrology for help.

The best scenario is to have their full birth data, which includes their time, date, and place of birth, and this information will enable you to compare your natal chart placements and get a detailed analysis about your compatibility with this person.

Because having such private information about a person you don’t know well is highly unlikely, the other best information you could possess is their horoscope sign.

All horoscope signs have special traits which most of the people born under the same sign share.

This fact enables us to compare two people’s traits through their horoscope signs and find out about their basic compatibility and the prospects of a lasting relationship between them.

In the text below, we will make a comparison between a Virgo man and an Aries woman to find out about the basic compatibility between these two and discover whether a relationship between them is possible and what are the issues they need to pay attention to.

Virgo Man

The Virgo man usually appears reserved and distant. These men don’t appear very emotional, and often they are not. The sign of Virgo is ruled by the planet Mercury, the planet of intellect. Their type of woman is most likely an intellectual type because a conversation is one of the most important parts of a relationship for this man.

A woman, who is not intelligent enough and has nothing to say, isn’t attractive to this man, regardless of how good she might look physically.

These men can have very innovative and unusual ways of approaching women and expressing them their love.

Virgo men often have a slightly perverted taste in women. They often like younger women or women who appear boyish. They often need intellectual stimulation before they can be attracted physically to a girl. If they don’t have some other planetary placements which increase their sexuality, they can be quite asexual and not interested in sex.

These men are usually very tidy and pay a lot of attention to the order in their house as well as their personal hygiene. These are prominent traits of Virgo people. A woman who doesn’t take care of herself and has poor hygiene is an immediate turn-off.

These men often have a big fear of disease, and that fear usually influences his cautious approach when they choose their relationship partner.

Like with any other signs, there are exclusions to these rules, and there are Virgo men who are very promiscuous, messy, and don’t take care of their personal hygiene.

The sign of Virgo is an earth, but also a mutable sign. These men appear to be very grounded, but their emotions can be very unstable and questionable. He can be in love one day, and realize the next day that he doesn’t even like the girl he thought he was in love with.

That trait of his often prevents him from establishing lasting relationships because he always seems to find the reasons why the relationship he currently is in is not the right one.

He tends to rationalize everything and relationships are one of the areas where he does that as well.

This man often appears confused or indecisive, and that is something many women find attractive. They are very good at judging characters and usually know if someone interests them right at the beginning. They are good with words and usually have the right way of turning women off without insulting them or making them feel bad.

Because of their practice to overthink and often their indecisiveness, Virgo men often remain solo for a long time, and they sometimes don’t marry at all. For them it is more honest to have such an approach than getting married for the sake of marrying and then divorcing.

They love their freedom and often have an approach of keeping their options open, which they openly declare to the women they are dating. Not all Virgo men are like that of course, and the ones who do get married are loyal and devoted husbands and parents.

The fact is that these men are very self- sufficient and they are perfectly fine of functioning on their own, without a partner. The women who are in love with these men won’t find this pleasing, but that is how it is with many of these men. They have their life organization and they don’t adapt easily to mixing with others, their habits and influences.

These men sometimes become tyrants and tell the people who live with them (usually their girlfriends, children, wife, etc.) how to behave and what they should and shouldn’t do around the house.

That can be very unnerving and upsetting to their loved ones, who desire to have the freedom to behave the way they want.

They often have a tendency to criticize, which is one of the traits they need to work on getting rid of, or minimizing, because it pushes people away from them.

If you are in love with a Virgo man, be prepared for a non-overly romantic relationship and a rational approach to love.

Aries Woman

The Aries woman is bursting with action. It is no wonder; the sign of Aries is a fire sign, ruled by the planet Mars; that all gives these women a dose of militancy and aggressive behavior.

These women are very direct and speak their mind openly. They are very passionate and sexual beings and often openly express their desires and sexuality. They need a strong and passionate response from a man they choose to be with.

An Aries woman is often very loud and dominant. She can be hard to deal with for both men with similar traits, as well as men who are timid and lack confidence. This woman’s approach can be something many people, both men and women have difficulty accepting and adjusting to.

They often don’t respect other people’s boundaries and act as they feel in the moment. Aries women are often considered rude and ill-mannered by other people, and in many cases these perceptions are entirely in place.

They should learn to control their temper and don’t come on as strong towards people.

As we have already said, the directness of approach of a typical Aries man can be too much for many men to handle. Men want a woman to be a mystery and usually don’t want to know right away if a woman is interested in them. Usually it turns them off from pursuing a woman.

With an Aries woman there is not much mystery because she is transparent about her desires.

This woman is usually not promiscuous, but she has fast reactions, and doesn’t want to waste her time on mind games and endless pursuing if it is clear that there is a strong attraction between her and some man.

Their behavior often causes men to perceive these women in an entirely different light than they actually are and that is all because of their sincerity.

The Aries woman is usually very ambitious and puts in the effort to succeed in accomplishing her desires. These women prefer action to intellectual work, and they often seek to become their own boss until their young age, which often is the reason why they don’t finish Universities.

In turn, they have their own private business they are proud of. The Aries women who are educated often climb high on the social ladder and are successful in their career. These women are ambitious and desire their man to be the same.

They love powerful and confident men, but their overpowering and dominant nature often brings them together with weaker men who seek strong women by their side. A role of dominance over a male is often a role an Aries woman chooses because she usually can’t stand being the weaker one in the relationship.

She is very capable of organizing her private life and her business, and she is often a good mother and wife, although not a very emotional one (unless she has some water or earth element in her natal chart as well).

She considers that role more like a duty she needs to perform well, and she does a really good job because no one is missing anything. She needs to work on getting in touch with her emotive side and her femininity because she often appears rough and even cold and unattached.

Regardless of her often rugged nature, this woman is a really good person and a good and reliable friend. People turn to her when times are difficult, and she is always ready to help.

Once people get to know her, realize how big her heart is, and are ready to accept her the way she is.

She has an adventurous nature and is not much of a house type, although she takes well care of her house and manages to maintain everything in order. If you like this woman and want to be with her, prepare yourself for a long adventure which sometimes can take a lifetime.

Love Compatibility

A love combination between a Virgo man and an Aries woman is not the happiest one. He is earth and mutable sign, while she is a fire and cardinal sign.

Their personalities and interests are entirely different. These two have nothing common (unless there are some other bonding planetary placements between them). He is withdrawn and often asocial, while she is direct and loves being around people.

He is drawn to mental activities while she is drawn to physical activities. He is almost asexual and not very passionate, while she is a very sexual and passionate being.

All in all, this relationship even if it starts it will require a lot of adjustments on both sides, but is highly unlikely that it will be successful, unless there are some other connections between them. 

Marriage Compatibility

A Virgo man and an Aries woman are not marriage material, if they are typical representatives of their signs. This man is not very open to the world while she is. He is usually very tidy, and she often doesn’t care about tidiness very much. He is uptight while she is relaxed and easy going.

These two probably won’t even notice each other, and this marriage is usually a result of chance and temporary infatuation between them. These two have no bonding interests and have a completely opposite approach towards life and life matters.

He is not a conflicting person, but there is bound to be conflicts between them usually because of his tendency to criticize and her inability to accept being criticized.

She might also be unsatisfied with the lack of life and passion in this man, and it is best if this marriage can be avoided because it would do them a favor of not getting through a divorce and agreements on parenting their children. 


Even a friendship relationship between a Virgo man and an Aries woman isn’t very likely to happen. The reason is a difference in goals and interests. They love different activities.

For example, she likes outdoor activities, while he would rather spend his time at home reading or watching a movie.

These two usually skip each other because they realize their differences right at the beginning and there is lack of common ground to begin a friendship (unless there are some similar elements in their natal charts in which case the situation is different). 

Cool Facts

One of the major differences between a Virgo man and an Aries woman is their choice of interests.

While the Virgo man is usually an intellectual type and chooses indoor and usually activities which involve using the brain, the Aries woman is an active type and usually chooses physical outdoor activities which fulfill her the most.


We must conclude that based on the general traits of a Virgo man and an Aries woman any relationship between them is not a good idea.

It takes a lot of adjustment and meeting in the middle to try to maintain such a relationship and it is best for the both to pass on this one to find a more suitable partner.