The main question we all want to know the answer to, when we meet someone who arouses our interest, and we consider dating, is the question: How would I get along with this man or this woman?
That is a question that astrology has various methods of answering.
One of these methods is the comparison between our horoscope sign and the horoscope sign of the person that interests us.
This method, although not very precise, can give us much information about the basic compatibility and potential of the relationship with this person.
It could also point out to the main issues we could have in the relationship with them.
In this text, we will make a comparison between the characteristics of a Gemini man and a Gemini woman in several types of relationships.
The Gemini man is a man of many faces. Like his sign, this man can be one person one minute, and a complete opposite the other. The sign of Gemini is a mutable air sign, and Gemini’s are all about change and progress.
These men don’t like stagnation and people who drag them backward, especially women.
They will recognize them in an instant, and as quickly as they have appeared, they will vanish into thin air. They refuse to waste their energy and time with people they instinctively feel won’t be a good match for them.
Gemini men (and women) are very intellectual and can be considered smarter than most signs. The reason is their ruling planet, Mercury, who rules knowledge and intellect, among other things.
They are quick-witted, and their mind quickly absorbs and processes the received information. They are usually a good judge of characters, due to their ability to notice details and put the pieces together into a whole.
His woman has to possess the same or similar abilities, so he could maintain his interest to pursue her. This man is usually very humorous, and he loves making jokes at his own expense, as well as on other peoples’ expense.
He is always in the spotlight because people find him very funny and amusing. He loves to mingle and collect the latest news, and he might even gossip. He can’t stand to be a long time in one place, and he is often attracted to frequent travel and moving his place of residence.
Of course, not many Gemini men manage to fulfill such a lifestyle, but they will try to compensate that inability by taking some exotic vacations, going out much, meeting a lot of new people, reading a lot, etc.
Gemini men are not very emotional, so you shouldn’t expect grand gestures of emotionality from them. If you expect him to text you every hour how much he loves you, forget about that.
He is not that kind of guy, at least if he doesn’t have some other influences in his chart. He is all about socializing and discovering new things and places.
That excites him the most. This man often uses his house as a place to spend the night. He is always making new plans where to spend his time next.
He desires to have a woman who can follow him in these adventures and not whine about something all the time. He can’t stand women who are complaining much. Such behavior suffocates him.
A woman who can follow this man’s tempo will earn his respect. For such a woman, he is willing to compromise and give up on some of his habits, to be able to spend more time with her.
When a Gemini man is in love, he usually changes his behavior entirely. If he also has some additional water placements in his natal chart, he can be a combination of a rational/emotional type, able to express deepest emotions to a woman, standing firm on the ground.
If you love a Gemini man, try not to overwhelm him with demands to give you all his attention. He cannot do that because he has way too many interests. He will respect and love you more if you are independent and don’t rely on him to fulfill all your gaps and needs in life.
He is not very passionate, and if you are a passionate woman with great sexual appetites, feel free to skip this man. His approach to sexuality is different. He enjoys talking and getting to know someone, and that is the thing which inspires him to go further into intimacy with a woman.
Raw sexuality usually leaves him indifferent and non-responsive.
A Gemini woman is a very bright lady.
She is also beautiful, but often a bit flaky. She is sexy, but not in a traditional way. She attracts men mostly with her sharp intellect and witty remarks. She regularly appears disinterested, and that is often how she feels, although sometimes she might act like that on purpose.
That is a trait, which drives men crazy. They never know what’s on this woman’s mind because her face is often expressionless, or is showing different emotions than the ones she is feeling at that moment. She often uses this trait to hide her true feelings and emotions.
The reasons might be various, from trying to protect her for some reason, to trying to gain something.
This woman is usually a good actress, and can easily play many different women roles. She does that mostly because she enjoys doing it, but some Gemini women have problems with honesty and are often prone to deceiving others.
The reason for that doesn’t have to be some gain, and most of them do it simply because of their need to hide certain things. These traits are something they should work on getting rid of because they can cause them problems with the people they care about dearly, and who don’t deserve to be lied to, especially without reason.
They are usually very ambitious and eager to gain more knowledge. These women are generally not attracted to muscles and physical appearance in a man. That is an asset, of course, but if that man doesn’t have anything in his brain, this woman won’t even notice him.
She would much rather talk to the bald little man with the jar eyeglasses who stands alone in the corner but is a Harvard graduate than with the cutest hunk in the room, admired by all the girls.
Noting is more attractive to this girl than a man who mentally challenges her and whom she finds interesting.
This woman loses interest quickly, and it takes a lot to occupy her mind. If she begins boring herself in your presence, she might start searching for inspiration and excitement elsewhere.
This woman is not very passionate (unless there is some fire or Scorpio prominent in her chart). She loves sex but prefers the excitement and intellectual challenge which leads to sex.
Of course, she is not immune to good-looking men, but she loses interest in them after she discovers there’s not much to talk to them.
She is not a home type of woman, and although she can be a good wife and mother, she is often seeking some satisfaction outside her house, usually related to her work and career, or intellectual advancement, in the form of additional education and specialization.
Her man must be willing to improve and progress if he plans to have her by his side for a long time.
She can’t stand laziness and stagnation. She is also not a type of a woman who can easily be told what to do. Because she usually chooses partners who choose partnership over domination, she is rarely in that situation.
As a parent, she can be very strict to her children, especially when it comes to their education. She considers their education very important and expects them to be the best they can in school. She often considers it a personal failure if her children fail at school.
She loves movement and travels frequently. If she has a family, she is often the initiator of the travels, finding out affordable arrangements and cheap flight tickets. She usually has luck with these kinds of dealings, as well as with other matters in her life.
She is an easy going lady, but she doesn’t like to be pressured. Keep her mind occupied (preferably thinking about you and how smart and interesting you are) and you will buy her devotion for a long time.
A Gemini man and a Gemini woman are a good love match, except for some minor issues which they need to work on resolving if they want to maintain a stable and harmonious relationship for a long time.
These two are very similar beings. They both lose interest fast and need constant intellectual and visual stimulation. The Gemini man and the Gemini woman are both good at noticing details.
They both are very intelligent and knowledgeable, and won’t lack topics to talk about. They are both free spirits and enjoy their travels and outdoor activities. They find each other very enjoyable and love spending time in each other’s company.
The only real issue between these two, which can pose a threat to the longevity of their relationship, is the fact that they are both flaky and often lack a sense of groundedness, as well as organizational skills.
Gemini people are typically disorganized, with their heads somewhere in the clouds, thinking about things which are not of much value for real life.
Fortunately, they are gifted with good luck which protects them in situations where they find themselves, due to the lack of responsibility and disorganization. They always expect things to work out somehow and they usually do, but sometimes a brick falls even on Gemini’s head.
Even that usually isn’t a wake-up call for them. If none of them possesses some stabilizing qualities, they might end up in a relationship where none of them will take the initiative and lead, which could cause severe, usually related to fulfilling duties and organizing essential matters in their life.
A marriage between a Gemini man and a Gemini woman is the worst combination for a relationship between the two. They both lack qualities needed for everyday responsible living.
If they get married, they might end up relying on luck and circumstances to finish the things that need to be finished, and every one of them might expect the other to do some things, which will usually result in none of them completing any of them.
These people need a partner who has more responsibility than they do, and who can take matters regarding the base organization of life matters in their hands.
With these two, who consider everyday duties boring, although they perform them when they are told to (and needing to be reminded not to forget them), a marriage commitment where neither of them is capable of organizing the other, is not a good idea.
A friendship between a Gemini man and a Gemini woman is a very likely occurrence. They both understand each other and sympathize with one another. They know each other’s weaknesses and they are tolerant of them.
They usually share the same interests, or at least they have the same hunger for knowledge and expansion, and that is what makes them respect each other.
They often travel together or participate in different types of adventures. They both love going out, and they can be good party partners.
Although they are a treasury of knowledge, which requires an excellent memory, Gemini men and women often forget the most essential things.
The reason for that is complete lack of interest to remember the information, regardless of its importance.
When this person doesn’t want to remember something, you can try everything to make them remember, but they will stubbornly (not consciously) avoid to remember it; If there’s something which needs to be done, and they don’t want to do it, although they know they should, they most probably won’t do it.
That is how many of Gemini people are, and you need to accept that.
The best relationship for a Gemini man and a Gemini woman is a friendship.
They share common traits and interests, and they easily find a common ground to develop their relationship further, based on mutual support.