When we are trying to decipher if someone’s a good match to us, we usually use all available resources to find out more about that person, especially their traits, habits, their way of life, tastes, relationships, etc.
Our primary sources for such information are their social profiles. We usually keep scouring their profiles daily, in search for new data.
One of the means we can also use to discover if a person is a suitable match for us is to compare their natal chart to ours.
Astrology can do wonders in determining if we are compatible with another person, and that isn’t limited solely to romantic relationships and can be used for any kind of relationship.
For an astrology synastry analysis (which is a comparison of the planetary positions in the charts of two people, and interpreting the aspects they form), we need to have precise birth data for ourselves and the person who interests us.
Since we often don’t have the other person’s birth data, we can make a comparison using their horoscope sign. That analysis doesn’t give as such precise information, but it can also be very useful.
It is based on comparing the basic traits of each sign and making conclusions about their general compatibility. These comparisons can also point out to the issues between two people.
In this text, we will make a comparison of the Libra man traits and the Gemini woman traits, and discover how good they match in various relationships.
Libra Man
The Libra man is a true gentleman, and good-looking as well. This man is usually aware of how his charm works on other people, and especially women. People are usually ready to do things for this man that they usually wouldn’t do for others. He is often a sweet talker, but that is a part of his personality, and he usually doesn’t have a bad intention underneath.
These men are genuinely kind and helpful and would do anything to help others. They are often known as people pleasers, because they cannot stand others being in a bad mood around them. They consider it their mission to make others happy.
The problem arises when this man falls in a bad mood. These men are prone to mood changes, and these changes are usually provoked by their indecisive nature and tendency to change their opinion. They are often unsatisfied because these insecurities stop them from achieving their full potential.
Being male these things frustrate them because they jeopardize their masculinity and sense of value and accomplishment.
They are prone to giving up before they get the results of an action, or giving up even before any action has been taken. Because of their nature, they need a woman with a strong and decisive personality who is able to support them and boost their courage when they need it.
Their indecisiveness makes them bad organizers because they lose time dealing with unnecessary details. They have a problem to make the final decision. They always try to put as many details into the equation and lose time and focus during that process.
These men need someone to push them into doing things the easiest possible way, not the most difficult.
Libra men are usually very talented and creative, and they often choose professions which enable them to use these abilities they have. They often lack ambition and are embarrassed to ask what is rightfully theirs and they are often tricked by other people, due to their naivety and trust in people.
These men are very good souls and they cannot imagine people having bad intentions towards them. That belief often causes them disappointments when someone unexpectedly treats them unfairly.
They are very attractive, and women love being in their presence. Having so many options sometimes makes these men promiscuous and dating multiple partners at the same time.
Such behavior isn’t really a part of their true nature. Like Libra women, they can’t stand being alone and often find themselves exaggerating in search for a company, even ending up in relationships which don’t suit them at all.
These men often end up with women who have stronger personalities than theirs. It is not that these men are weak it is just that they have some traits which stop them from using their full potential. That is why, a woman who is strong and determined and loves this man, wants to support this man into becoming the best version of himself. She pushes him into doing things he is afraid of or doesn’t believe are possible.
A Libra man is often not good at organizing things, and that is where a woman who is enterprising and determined hops in to take his place. She pressures him to finish the thing he has started (otherwise he would spend ages thinking about all the details and how to make everyone pleased, etc.), or she does it herself.
This man often has no objection when a woman takes over his duties. These men are often lazy and don’t mind when someone else does their job for them. They are sweet talkers and easily persuade others into doing what they want.
These men are very sociable and have a lot of friends and acquaintances. They love going out and mingling with people. They usually spend their time at home only when they have to. A typical Libra man is like that; if you are a kind of woman who prefers to stay at home and you have a crush on a Libra man, you better forget about it. He might change, but maybe he won’t.
The situation changes only when they finally decide to commit to a girl, and that usually takes a long time. He needs to be completely sure that she is the right one, at least at that moment. This man finds it difficult to make any decision, and the decision about choosing a life partner is truly a major one.
When he finally commits, he is usually a devoted partner and usually doesn’t go out as much.
He tries to maintain contact with friends and see them as much as possible, but he doesn’t jeopardize his relationship. He is a good father and does his choirs regularly. You might need to tell him and remind him constantly what to do, but otherwise, your life with this man is bound to be filled with peace and harmony.
Gemini Woman
A Gemini woman is very active and curious being. To the people from her surroundings she appears to be constantly going somewhere or doing something new. These women are very driven and change motivates them. They can’t stand a rut and boring, everyday routine kills the joy in them.
Because of that, they seek to make their life an adventure and interesting. They enjoy traveling and going out, as well as meeting new people. They are very good at establishing contacts and communicating. One of the main reasons for that is their ruling planet, Mercury, which rules communication, travel, commerce, education, etc.
Gemini women are very ambitious and often very educated. They never stop gaining knowledge and they usually appear younger than they are. They don’t care about age, and often socialize with different age groups.
Many of them hide their years because they don’t want people to judge them based on their age.
These women are usually very interesting and fun to be around. They are also full of interesting stories which are fun to listen to. They are always going places, and their lives are very dynamic. These women find it difficult to settle down in a committed relationship, and they seek a man with similar interests and traits.
They usually can’t imagine spending days in the house and not going anywhere (when they are in love they can even adapt to that, but not for a long time).
Gemini women are attracted more by someone’s intellect and personality than by their looks. If she doesn’t feel inspired and amazed by a man’s wit, she won’t even notice how that man looks. It is how it is with these women. Men who are attracted to them (and they usually stick to them like moths to a flame), need to be aware of that fact.
If you are interested in a Gemini woman, the fact that you are spending hours at the gym and look like the god Apollo, doesn’t mean a thing, if you don’t have anything smart to say.
These women can sometimes succumb to pure physical attraction and be with a man who doesn’t fit their ideals, but these relationships are usually short-lived. Fortunately for her, she is usually able to control her emotions, and she might get out of a bad relationship without being emotionally devastated.
Gemini women are usually not very emotional, and are usually not very grounded (unless there is a water or earth influence in their chart). Because of that, they need a man by their side who will help them get in touch with their emotional side, and become more grounded as well.
They are very ambitious and much focused on their career. They are usually very successful as well. Because of their light-headed approach to things, they often with ease finish all their duties, and manage to accomplish way more than other women. They are good wives and mothers and manage to keep everything under control.
One of their weak spots is the tendency to distort the truth, or to avoid speaking the truth. They usually don’t have a special reason for such behavior, it is who they are.
Love Compatibility
A love match between a Libra man and a Gemini woman is usually not a good idea. These two get along very well and they enjoy each other’s company. They also have a lot of common interests, especially in the field of art and literature. They also love going out and meeting new people.
The problem in the relationship with these two, is that they are both too airy. They are not very stable and grounded, and they often don’t have what it takes to maintain a commitment.
If one of them or both have some other planetary placements which give them more stability and groundedness, this relationship might work out and actually be a very good one.
Otherwise, they will both realize after some time that they need someone with a stronger personality to direct their way.
Marriage Compatibility
A marriage between a Libra man and a Gemini woman is usually not a lasting one. These two have a really good relationship and get along very well, but they usually don’t have what it takes to maintain its stability.
These two are often laid back and easy going, and usually need someone to push them into action.
They usually do things that interest them and are bored with household duties and requirements of family life. if one of them or both possess such traits this marriage could be a very successful one because these two have genuine love and understanding for each other.
If that is not the case, the advice is to try to skip this kind of commitment because it might not have a happy ending.
Friendship
Libra man and Gemini woman make awesome friends. These two share many interests and have similar characters.
They are both air signs, and often do outdoor activities together, whether it is visiting a gallery, a concert, a night club, etc. They are both good at communicating and enjoy talking to each other.
Theirs is a genuine friendship which often lasts a lifetime.
Cool Facts
Both Libra man and the Gemini woman are prone to distorting the truth sometimes.
The Libra man does it usually to protect someone from getting hurt, or to please someone, while the Gemini woman does it usually because of her unexplainable need to keep the truth for herself.
Summary
A Libra man and a Gemini woman have a naturally good relationship.
They get along very well, but unfortunately they are not a good combination for a long-term relationship or marriage because they lack some traits which are required to maintain such a relationship.
Both of them need stronger partners who will take the initiative and lead the relationship in the right direction.